We will be discussing how important it is to be real at all times in relationships. When we go into relations with each other pretending, or faking who we are, then we end up hurting the people who believed in the parody. It is best to be upfront and come clean about any issues that you know about yourself, giving the other person the freedom of choice as to whether or not they want to contend with it. Don't try to fake your way into someone's life by utilizing the information they tell you about themselves and don't try to make up a person to fit the criteria of what you think someone is looking for. Learning to operate in love means that we have to be true to ourselves, and also be true to others, otherwise we are only living a lie, taking others freedom of choice, and teaching them that it is not good to trust. Learn to love as yourself first, and don't make a parody out of your relationship with others.
Romans 12:10 MSG Bible
Love from the center of who you are; don’t fake it. Run for dear life from evil; hold on for dear life to good. Be good friends who love deeply; practice playing second fiddle.
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