The pain from breaking up in a committed Relationship vs breakup of a Divorce

Sunday - is the pain from breaking up in a committed relationship vs the breakup of a divorce? This show is to discuss the level of commitment between two people who claim they love each other and want happens when the love goes awry. As someone who believes in living happy and healthy, I understand sometimes we have not vetted our spouses or loved ones in depth, and breakup is the only answer. In Living with a person Is the respect different in the relationship? Does family matter, ie having children? What is the responsibility of the husband to the wife? What about companionship? If you choose a life companion how does the strengthen differ from that of a marriage relationship. What about the spiritual factor, does it matter if the couple is churched or unchurched? Harmony in the relationship is key. If you are married, are you with me because we are married or are you with me because you want to be with me? That is the guy's thought said one interviewee. What are your deal breakers? What is your unacceptable list?