Does Standing Up For Yourself Mean You Are Hurting Others?

MI RI From Switzerland asks:  I have a question regarding today's show about ego. Does Standing Up For Yourself Mean You Are Hurting Others? How much do we have to take from other people? Situations appear and one might think the best way to go is to "own one's right",  especially if one feels offended. It's easy to own one's right (especially when you know you're right) and "ego" loves to handle the things this way.  The heart doesen't need any of the above drama. The heart wants to be free of it. But is it even ego, if we want to stand our man/woman (stand for our right)? Where do you draw the line between standing up for yourself and not wanting to hurt others?